Our Society Boundries

Why must someone be a certain way according to society to be accepted and recognised? You have to be a certain weight and look a certain way. Your code of conduct must always what others think to be acceptable. Some say the society now, is too critical and strict. Pushing many to the point where being within that accepted range. For that, I applaud those that have been able to keep up with this society. I wouldn't say that the mindset of people nowadays are correct but it's not completely wrong either. Without this 'guideline' sure, the world would be in chaos, everyone doing waht they want to, what they feel like doing.